Twenty years ago, I walked away from a successful corporate career with no idea where that decision would lead.

What followed was two decades of building a business, becoming a mum, navigating burnout, reinventing myself and my work, making mistakes, taking risks and continually questioning what success really means.

In this special anniversary episode, I’m sharing 20 lessons I’ve had to live to understand.

They’re not really lessons about staying in business for 20 years. They’re about ambition, courage, motherhood, health, relationships, reinvention and learning not to postpone your life in pursuit of success.

If you’ve ever wondered how to keep pursuing the work that matters to you without losing sight of the life that matters too, this episode is for you.

In This Episode You’ll Discover

* Why betting on yourself is less about knowing things will work out and more about trusting yourself to respond when they don’t

* How motherhood can change your ambition without diminishing it

* Why the strengths that helped you succeed can sometimes become the very things that hold you back

* What burnout taught me about sustainable success, wellbeing and rest

* Why your definition of success is allowed to change as you change

* The importance of recognising the seasons of work and life rather than expecting yourself to operate at full capacity all the time

* Why self-awareness creates greater choice and agency

* What it means to build a meaningful career without postponing the life you’re working so hard to create

Why This Conversation Matters

Twenty years gives you a lot of data.

There are the things that worked, the things that didn’t, the risks worth taking and the lessons you could only ever learn by living them.

As I mark 20 years since starting my business, I’ve found myself reflecting less on what I’ve achieved and much more on what those two decades have taught me… about ambition, motherhood, burnout, courage, leadership and what really matters.

Because building a successful career is only part of the picture. How we work, what we sacrifice, the relationships we nurture, our health and the life happening around our ambitions matter too.

Whether you’re thriving, struggling or simply getting on with the everyday juggle of work and life, I hope these 20 lessons give you something useful to take away — and perhaps help you see something in your own work or life through a different lens.

Links in this episode

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